Identifying five phases of courtship including attracting attention, recognition, conversation, touching, and lovemaking, an anthropological guide explores the ways in which non-verbal communication impacts relationships while suggesting how to use body language strategically. Reprint. 25,000 first printing. A world-renowned anthropologist finally gives you the answer to those 'why didn't he pick me?' situations: its what youre not saying that counts. With a very accessible writing style and tips that anyone can use, this guide to the world of non-verbal signs, signals and cues will help you to finally understand and master the courting rituals in almost any setting. Whether it is a co-worker or a blind date, Dr. Givens reveals all the silent messages that can be given off, from the very top of your forehead to the littlest of your toes. Learn about: Attracting with your eyebrows Reading eye movements The right stance The unwritten rules of personal space The approach me fragrance And