New York Times bestselling author Dr. Warren Farrell reveals solutions to the seven most important barriers to sustaining love¿practices that have helped thousands of real couples rediscover their "soul mate" spark. When Dr. Farrell began teaching couples¿ communication 30 years ago, he taught the wisdom of not being defensive in response to criticism. However, when a couple returned home and a criticism inevitably appeared, that wisdom disappeared. Couples needed to not just be taught this, but to practice both in the workshop and at home. With the help of decades of post-workshop feedback from real couples, Farrell perfected six mindsets that the couples found most effective to embrace criticism as an opportunity to feel more deeply loved¿even while they are being criticized. Role Mate to Soul Mate guides couples on how to do this for two hours per week as a ¿Caring and Sharing Practice.¿ For the other 166 hours, couples create a ¿Conflict-Free Zone¿ the other 166 hours, which requir
